Melisa;
Welcome to the Forum!
I am sorry for the loss of your mother. Yes, most people don't understand what we go through on a day-to-day basis. Self education is one of the keys to successfully manage diabetes. Read the first three threads, in the Type 2 Section, when you get a chance. Learn to count carbs, take your meds as prescribed, loose weight if you need to, get lots of exercise, test often and you will have the A1c that you desire in no time. If you have questions, just ask on the Forum. Good luck with your control and management.